_Dear Counselor,_
_I have a good relationship with my ex-boyfriend. We chat, call and sometimes visit each other. My current boyfriend says he's not comfortable with that and has told me several times to stop, if not, he'll break-up with me. But I don't see anything wrong with it. What should I do?_
Adwoa, Amasaman-Ghana.
*Counselor FENYI:* It is advisable to keep an ex-lover in a distance. There's a reason he's Ex, don't bring him close, not close enough to disturb your current relationship.
It is folly to destroy your current relationship with an Ex-lover. If he was good enough or situations were favourable enough, he wouldn't have been Ex. Be strong enough to move on.
One of the greatest threats to any good relationship is an Ex. Generally, no ex-lover would want you to get into any better relationship, at least not better than what he had with you. So some intentionally linger around you just to monitor your new relationship and if possible, ruin it.
If your current lover is not comfortable with your Ex, and you want to save your relationship, then cut your Ex off. It's simple!
However, if you still have intentions of going back to your Ex or you still need his friendship badly, perhaps due to some valuable good you get from him, then be ready to sacrifice your relationship.
Thank you.
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