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*My Boyfriend Always Demands For Sex, What Should I Do?*
Author: Counselor FENYI

If your boyfriend doesn't demand for sex from you, who and where else do you expect him to demand from? Men are always attracted by what they see. So if your guy demands for sex anytime he sees you, then you are privileged that he finds you very attractive. However, finding you attractive is not an indication of love. *Sex, Attraction and Love are different subjects.* If you confuse the three, you may go about having sex with almost every guy that will comes your way.

Some men are merely 'sexholics', when you deny them sex, trust that they will get it somewhere else. Such men find it difficult to control their libido and so anytime their sexual drive arouses, nothing can stop it. Such men are dangerous to be with because you can't trust their faithfulness. They are largely cheats and you marry them at your own risk. *Ladies, never think you can keep a man with sex.* If your man happens to be a 'sexholic', it is unfortunate but I believe something can be done about it.

Now, let's come to the real issue, if your guy is a 'sexholic', what can you do? *You have two options in this situation:* you either walk out of the relationship and find someone else or find a way to "contain" him. But, if you walk out of the relationship, what assurance do you have that the next guy you'll meet is also not a fan of sex. Don't forget, the drive for sex is natural in all men, and men, generally, have stronger sex drive.

If you want to contain him, I have two suggestions for you. One is to consider *marriage* . Marriage will do 80% of the job since after marriage, couples can have sex legally anytime, anyday, as many times, and with the blessings of God. However, be mindful too that marrying just as a means to solving a sexual problem is very wrong. If you are not fully prepared for marriage, don't go into it.

Another move you can make is to sit your guy down, talk to him heart-to-heart and reason with him. He's human, he has sense and can buy into your convictions upon convincing him. Let him come to appreciate all the consequences that come with sex; the unwanted pregnancies, the complications of abortion, the unprepared parenthood and the disappointments from family and friends.

I wish you God's blessings in your relationship/marriage.

*Thank you for Reading.*

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