The Master Brewer – Lade Wosornu

*WHO IS A HUSBAND MATERIAL?*
Author: Counselor FENYI

Ladies, forget about 'he has six packs', forget about 'he is thick-tall', forget about 'he has money', forget about 'he has pink lips', forget about 'he has a car', marriage goes beyond these qualities. This piece is the sequel of my article, *"Who is a Wife Material".* After reading, pick Counselor Fenyi's number and call/whatsapp him on +233242937O17 for further mentoring and counselling.

Not every man is worth marrying. My lady, never allow family, friends, society, etc to pressure you into marriage. Never think that you are growing old so you need to marry at all cost. Note that, *It is better to wait LONG than marry WRONG.* If your boyfriend does not have the following qualities, think twice before you agree to marry him.

One, anytime you ask him a question, he asks you back, "what do you think?". This is never a sign of love. It's a sign of immaturity. Only kids seek diverse opinions before they take decisions. Matured minds take a decision, and asks others what they think about it. A husband material almost always knows what to do at what point in time. God has made the man a head of the family, and every head has brains. If your man doesn't have brains to take strong decisions, make bold choices and provide effective leadership in the relationship, don't go marrying him. When you do, his poor choices, his indecisiveness and his 'I-don't-know-what-to-do' attitude can make you miserable.

A husband material is transparent. He is open to his lady. He keeps no secret from his woman. Anytime secrecy sets in the relationship, suspicion rears its head and the relationship turns sour. A husband material tells his woman everything including the password to his phone, amount of money he makes, his likes, his dislikes, etc. This makes the relationship free from unnecesary suspicions and fears. Relationship thrives on trust and trust can only be built through transparency. Ladies, be careful around guys who are secretive, their moves are always unpredictable and they can give you the sharpest heart-break.

A husband material introduces his lady to his family and friends. He is bold to let his friends know the lady he's dating. A husband material is also bold to introduce his lady to his family (parents and siblings). He doesn't keep the relationship a secret. Any man who keeps the relationship a secret is likely to have already introduced another lady to his friends and family or he does not see any future in the relationship. If he keeps on keeping you away from his family and friends, be on the alert, there's something fishy somewhere.

A husband material does not disturb his lady with sex. He does not reduce relationship to sex. He makes his lady feel like a precious jewel who offers something more than sex. He doesn't see the woman as a sex machine. He calls the lady often, not only when he needs sex from her.

A husband material helps his lady to achieve her dreams. Relationship is not an avenue for the lady to compromise on her dreams just to please the man. A husband material encourages his lady to go higher in life. He doesn't make his lady feel inferior and good-for-nothing.

A husband material loves and understands his woman. This is perhaps the most important element in a husband material. He loves and always wants to be with you. He loves you for who you are and not just for your fine face, big boobs, big butts, etc. He's with you when things go good and in bad times too, he's with you.

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©February, 2018.